Wedding Etiquette Forum

Addressing Shower Thank Yous

So my aunts are throwing my bridal shower and they are so excited about everything they're doing and surprising me with it all. I am also excited to see everything they are doing! However, the other day my aunt called and told me she had a box of thank you's I could have if I wanted. I told her that would be great and I would pay her for them. She said don't worry about the money, then said she was going to have the envelopes out at the shower so that when people came they could write their name/addresses on the envelopes so I don't have to..... She said they did it at my cousin's baby shower and it was helpful.

I don't like it. I don't like it at all. I don't want people filling out their own thank you envelopes. I don't know how to tell her I'd rather not do this because I don't want to come off as trying to tell them what to do at my shower. I know the bride isn't supposed to plan her own shower, but is this something I can let her know I'd rather do on my own? Please give me some helpful advice on how to nicely tell her I'd rather address my own thank yous!!!
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