OK, so my cousin has gone of the deep end. About six months ago, he got divorced, and he is already engaged to another woman who he met after his wife left him. He has one kid who I adore, and she has two kids. I've never met this lady.
I'm allowing kids at the wedding, because hey, I'm getting married in an elephant at the beach. Obviously kid-friendly. My original list had my cousin, his wife, and their son, but now this new lady has complicated things, especially because my guest list is tight.
We're all kinda leery about this new romance, because first of all it's so fast, and second of all it seems like she is kind of entrapping him, wanting him to buy this huge house he can't afford so her parents can move in with them, which is a red flag to me. Also, her kids have been bratty to my aunt.
I don't want to invite the kids, and I keep hoping that this will just go away on its own, but that's pretty crummy of me, right? Something tells me that if I invite my cousin's kid but not the stepkids, that will be a huge diick move. Tell me to stop being a catty douche.
Our Story MAJORLY UPDATED 8/6/09
Wouldn't it be nice to live together in the kind of world where we belong?