Wedding Etiquette Forum

Reception Opinions

Good Morning Ladies!  My FI & I are paying for our wedding on our own & have a rather tight budget.  I have a large family (I have 20 aunts & uncles - not including their spouses) & my FI has a lot of family that lives close by so a small wedding is not an option, even if we just invited relatives.  I want get other bride's opinions on an idea I had over the weekend to save money.  Would it be tacky to have a small(ish) ceremony w/ mostly family, supper @ the church with the people invited to the ceremony & then a dance where we serve cake, drinks & snacks that we could invite more people to?  We live in a small town & both of us grew up in the area so there will be a lot of people hurt if they aren't invited & we want to be able to celibrate with as many people as possible.  The other idea we had was  a later ceremony followed by the cake/dance reception.  Any thoughts would be helpful!!   
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