So I'm still trying ot htink of good gift ideas to give my BMs, but the problem is that I may have a girl or two that may pull "my gift is way better" snottiness. So theonly wayt o prevent this is to get them all somewhat the same thing (only change would be color) but these girls are all different. Out of the four two don't wear jewelry/makeup/girliness and the other two are very girly and all four have different interests. People just keep telling me to get them a gift they can use for the wedding but that doesn't sound right or to get them mani/pedi for the wedding which also doesn't sound right and no possible since 2 are 800 miles away. should I just get them giftcards?
Also for the STDs I had sent out I had gotten quite a few married couples who said that only one of them would be coming. Should I still address the invites for both? Also the country club I have as a venue has a dress requirement of "black tie optional" should I pu thtat one the invite as well?
Thanks!