My wedding is in just over 3 weeks. We are having a very small ceremony and sit down meal for close friends and family (32 guests) followed by a party for a larger group of friends (I know this is considered rude the US but we live in the UK where it is the norm). At my bachelorette party one of my friends informed me that she is breaking up with her boyfriend of 1 year. He is not very popular with any of our close friends and FI really doesn't like him. He's a very pushy guy and invited himself to FI's bachelor party but bascially contacting the best man and asking him when it was rather than waiting to be invited.
If she does break up with him I would really prefer not to have him at the wedding and kind of assumed that logically he would not come. We only invited him because it ws the polite thing to do to invite her partner. However my friend has informed my MOH that she thinks he would still want to come to the wedding if they break up.
Is it okay for me to suggest to my friend (only if they actually break up) that I don't think it's appropriate for him to attend such an intimate ceremony and that I may not be able to rearrange the entire seating plan to put them at different tables?
Am I being a massive B?
