My DH and I have decided that the wedding day in reality really doesn't have to do about us. It's more a party for other people and being there please the family. This is kind of how we see it to not get too upset about other people ruining the most important part for us. (My mother single handed ruined my pre-ceremony emotions and my walk down the aisle)
I've tried to tell myself, woo hoo I'm married! But then the little voice asks, why didn't you just elope? You'd still be married without spending $$$.
All the people took their time and energy to come to the wedding, focus on the people that care.
The voice says, now I just feel more guilty of not being able to get over all the negative things that my mom did.
I so wish I could focus on other ppl that matters on the wedding day, except I wasn't able to. So I feel guilty about that. Good thing is, no one noticed because we were all acting normal.
I'm tired of whenever I think about the wedding I just feel like crap. It's suppose to be a wonderful memory and it's now filled with disgust. I also cant talk about this to anyone because I feel like I'd be letting these ppl down who tried so hard to make my day beautiful.