I am in a wedding this coming July. We are in the process of planning the bachelorette party, and the bride would like to invite girls she was not able to invite to the wedding. I know she had to eliminate some friends who aren't able to behave appropriately around family members, and some were just eliminated for numbers reasons. I've always thought if I were invited to a shower/bachelorette party, I'd be getting a wedding invitation as well. Should I bring this up to her? How can I handle it delicately? I know she just wants to spend time with her friends, but am worried it will result in more issues later.
Thanks for any advice!