I'm sure this is or has happened to everyone so I wanted to get others feedback on the situation. How do you handle people and their uncalled for comments. Here is a list of just some of the stuff I've been told: There's so many better things for you to spend your money on than a wedding! So and so let their bridesmaids pick out their own individual dress! Why don't you invite so and so? Other people like this food and don't like that food. I could go on and on about every one and their two cents. I'm trying so hard not to get annoyed by everyone's personal opinions or comments but its like everyone expects us to cater to their wishes on our wedding day. Unfortunately, I can't please everyone and my fiance and I are paying for the wedding not everyone else so in the end I believe we should plan the wedding how we want or dreamed of. Sorry this is a long vent but I've been constantly hearing myself say this week Idc to numerous comments and we are paying for this not you or so and so. I just wanted to know how people deal with this stuff? I've been hearing she's turning into a bridezilla just because I tell people please keep your comments to yourself. Someone please give me advice on how not to get annoyed by this while keeping my composure!