Invitations should be sent for the rehearsal dinner correct? Fiance's parents are hosting the rehearsal dinner and when I told them I would e-mail the addresses of the wedding party his mom asked why. I told her for the invitations... She said no we don't send invitations for this you just let the people know when and where and find out what they want to eat (we have to let the restaurant know ahead of time what people want, and they will have the food ready when we arrive). I think this is awfully rude... I nicely told her I thought we should probably send out invitations and she refuses, she said both times her daughter got married invitations were sent out for the rehearsal... What should I do? I'm really not comfortable calling people about it but she says fiance and I need to call people.. Help!!