Ok ladies I have a question about inviting certain people to my wedding. I'll try to keep it short but the information needs to be put out there to get your help.
FI's uncle passed away July 4th. Due to this FI's parents started talking again to his aunt. (FFIL's sister) The two families hadn't spoken in years despite living next door to each other due to FI's cousins causing problems.
I would like to invite the aunt and uncle to my wedding. However here is the problem. FI's cousin (the one that caused the problems) has six kids. FI's aunt basically raises them. They live with her and her husband and have since they were all born. They range from 19 y/o- 1 y/o. I have met and been around the kids numerous times. However, my FI and I do not get along with any of the kids. Mostly the oldest four which are all teenage boys. They are incredibly disrespectful and rude to their grandmother as well as FI's other aunt.
I do not want them at our wedding. I could gurantee that they don't give a crap about seeing us get married. I would bet any money that they would show up just to eat, cause a scene and then leave. I also wouldn't be surprised if they showed up in the middle of the ceremony. (They showed up in the middle of FI's funeral service and were being loud and obnoxious while the preacher was talking.)
Can I just invite his aunt and uncle?
