So we are planning on having my best friend's two children, who will be 4 and 5, as the ring bearer and flower girl. We also want to include my other close friend's daughter, who will be 16 months, and my FH's cousin's son, who will be 2, in the wedding.
Our church has a rule that any kid in the WP under 5 has to walk with their parents (we're going to, ahem, stretch the truth on the age of the 4 year old) and I'm guessing the 16 month old and 2 year old will be more at ease going down the aisle with their moms anyway. I was thinking for their " titles" in the program I would put FG in-training and RB in-training. Part of me thinks it'll be cute, but I definitely don't want to offend their parents or make the 2 younger kids seem less important in anyway. Thoughts?