There's a girl in my social circle who I am sort of friends with. I say sort of, because we knew each other in high school, and now she hangs out with a bunch of the same people as I do. Basically, she would be very surprised to find out that I don't really like her very much. She's very loud and kind of obnoxious, and we don't really have a lot in common.
I invite her to any parties I throw because we're kind of friends. The problem is, she always wants to come over like, 2 hours before the party starts, which means instead of getting dressed and like, frosting cupcakes, I'm taking her coat, making small talk and her a drink.
Then, when she's getting ready to leave, she always insists on making a "to-go" plate, even though she's already eaten. Now, I have no problem sending a piece of cake home to her mother, I routinely offer that. But she wants to take like, a whole heaping plate full of food so that she'll have lunch the next day.
Am I unreasonable to think that it's really rude, and what, if anything would you say to her?
