BM & MOH gifts

xstarx05x

This should have a relatively straightforward answer.

Should my MOH get a special gift in addition to the other BM gifts?

Thanks!

Lyss5782

I dont think its a "should," but mine is.

strawberrycrz

I'm going to do a little more for them, but not much more.  I think it's a nice gesture but is not required.

TNMurray

Did you MOH put in more work? Some MOH act as BM.

tdso008

I'm getting her something different from the rest of the girls... something extra special...

TheCranberry

About how much are ya'll spending on BM/MOH gifts?

CLSchramm

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bm-moh-gifts?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f36a7556-f5e7-4a1d-808f-2cf24cd80280Post:79b9212b-4a4c-4023-a2bd-2689dbb85b1a">Re: BM & MOH gifts</a>:
[QUOTE]Did you MOH put in more work? Some MOH act as BM.
Posted by TNMurray[/QUOTE]

This.

xstarx05x

yeah she's doing heaps, since I'm not in the country at the moment! she and my mom are doing a lot of organising.

sapphirebaby926

I spent about the same amount on all of my BM's - that being said I got a call from my mother a few days after I got engaged and she said 'Your sister is upset you haven't asked her to be your MOH yet.' I asked her because I planned to do so anyway but I didn't spend any extra money on her just because she was my MOH.

bonnyandtim

My BM gifts are all the same. My MOH has done the same work as my other BMs. I haven't required much labor...1 planning get together evening is all we've had. They all have equally planned my shower.

I spent about $75. That said, everyone should not compare themselves to me. My budget is different than others. & especially since ~$40 is jewelry.