Wedding Etiquette Forum

Multiple Showers

This is one of those situations where I feel like I'm just along for the ride...

My bridesmaids and my aunt/cousin have told me they want to throw me a shower. The bridesmaids want a "fancy" shower at a winery while my family wants it in my grandparent's hometown (a few hours away) which is kind of a middle point for all my family and is what the rest of my family has done in the past. I have spoken with my mom, family and bridesmaids about this whole situation and they think it's perfectly fine to have two.
I am more than grateful that they all want to do this for me but I feel silly having two. Also, do I invite bridesmaid to the family one? My sister would probably go to both. I can ask her to not bring a gift to either for all I care, but will she fell bad not having a gift for one?
I just don't know what the etiquette is for this.

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