I received a gift from my Aunt and she included the names of two of my cousins who couldn't make the shower and won't be at the wedding. Do separate notes get sent to my cousins as well, or should one go to my aunt?
Also, my soon-to-be stepdaughters' grandmother attended the shower and she put her daughter's name on the card (not the kids' mom), who wasn't invited to the shower or wedding and whom I have only seen a handful of times. Should I send her a thank you as well, or include a thank you in the note to the grandmother?
Thanks!!