I wrote a post a couple days ago about a bride who's wedding I'm in, she went from "you can pick your own dress" to she picked the dress, ordered it without asking, now she wants specific shoes (and pretty expensive ones for just a wedding), jackets, hair... the whole works!
The girls who responded to the posts said it is her responsibilty to pay for shoes and jackets if she wants specific ones, however after I looked a little futher I kept finding conflicting responses some say she should if she is demanding a certain pair, others say that's what you get and the budget on how much a bridesmaid should spend should be endless.
What do you think? Who pays?