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WTF!!! Wishing Well Enclosure

This was enclosed in an invitation to my FI's friend's wedding:

Because at first we lived in sin
We've got the sheets and a rubbish bin
A gift from you would be swell
But we'd prefer a donation to our Wishing Well!!


I though it was hilarious but I think some people will find this offensive!  I can just picture their grandmother reading it....Sealed
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Re: WTF!!! Wishing Well Enclosure

  • Pics or it didn't happen.
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    [QUOTE]This was enclosed in an invitation to my FI's friend's wedding: Because at first we lived in sin We've got the sheets and a rubbish bin A gift from you would be swell But we'd prefer a donation to our Wishing Well!! I though it was hilarious but I think some people will find this offensive!  I can just picture their grandmother reading it....
    Posted by brandibooh[/QUOTE]

    Bahahahaha! I've gotta see this!
  • I'm really surprised someone actually did that. I shouldn't be, but I am.
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    [QUOTE]Pics or it didn't happen.
    Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]

    Ditto.
  • Why do people think lame rhymes make things better?
  • Is it a cash wishing well or one of those honeymoon ones where they are supposed to bring silly stuff like sunscreen etc?

    If its cash, I would bring coins.  I never throw dollar bills in wishing wells :)
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    [QUOTE]Why do people think lame rhymes make things better?
    Posted by emilyinchile[/QUOTE]

    <div>Because cutesy makes it okay, like, totally. </div><div>
    </div><div>*hair flip*</div>
  • I really want to point out the fact that I "live in sin" on my wedding invitation. Oh yeah.
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    [QUOTE]Buy them sheets
    Posted by jajph1974[/QUOTE]

    Or a Bible.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: WTF!!! Wishing Well Enclosure : Or a Bible.
    Posted by Kati0105[/QUOTE]


    Bible wrapped in sheets?
  • Sadly, I think there are a lot of people who do stupid stuff like this.  A lot. 

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: WTF!!! Wishing Well Enclosure : Bible wrapped in sheets?
    Posted by jajph1974[/QUOTE]

    Ha I just laughed out loud!  Thank you for making my afternoon.  :)
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    [QUOTE]Buy them sheets
    Posted by jajph1974[/QUOTE]

    <div>Or a bunch of sheets wrapped in a rubbish bin?</div>
  • Man, in my area Wishing Wells are for inexpensive kitchen things.  Those (^^) sound so much more tacky.  Why don't they just call it a donation box?

    Love the sheets and the bible!
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  • Yeah I'm pretty offended by the whole "living in sin" phrase. Who says that to people let alone about yourself.

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: WTF!!! Wishing Well Enclosure : Ha I just laughed out loud!  Thank you for making my afternoon.  :)
    Posted by whitneykaye87[/QUOTE]


    I have my (rare) moments  :P

    BTW ... love your engagement pics
  • I just spit diet coke at my computer.  

    Please god give them a quarter and a clue.  
  • I am willing to bet my life that this originated from an idea posted online from an Australian (both the idea of the wishing well, and the poem including the phrase 'living in sin' which is said frequently here). 

     

    I have seen very similar inserts in invitations here before- and here, a wishing well is regarded as better etiquette than a registry by many people (because it is anonymous and is at guests' discretion). 

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