Just what the subject says.
The woman who asked me was a friend in high school but we never even talk anymore, to the point she had to ask my mother(who works at her doctors office) to get my new telephone number which I switched over a year ago, and no we didn't talk all the time then I changed her number and didn't tell her, we just talked so infrequently that I never thought to let her know about the new number
It was a little weird to me, I guess under normal circumstances I'd probably say yes but I'm planning my own wedding and I moved away from my hometown, I just really don't have the money to spend on the dress or to give my time to her like she would deserve(i.e. bridal showers and things of that nature)
I'm pretty sure it's gonna hurt her feelings though, I really don't want to hurt her. I already told her I wasn't sure because of the reasons above and I needed to think about it. Her voice sounded really deflated and upset when I said it.
Is there anyway to turn her down nicely? Or should I just try to get the cash and do it for her? I feel a little guilty because it's supposed to be an honor to be asked and stuff.