Shower thank yous

csh96

When writing thank you notes from the shower, do I include FI's name?  This wasn't a shower where FI was in attendance but the gits are obviously for the both of us.

DramaGeek

Ditto Katelyn

jessicabessica

Ditto Katelyn.  That's how FI and I write all of our TY notes, not just how I wrote my shower notes.  

graysquirrel

I included FI's name in the closing. The gifts were for both of us and I felt that it would be appropriate for his name to represent his thanks as well. 

cassandrae913

A shower is for the bride, so you do not include FI. If it s a joint shower, then yes. FI and you should jointly thank people for wedding gifts.