My bridesmaids threw me a shower this past weekend and I now have a pile of boxes and gift bags in my living room full of presents. I'm already working on thank-you notes, but what do I do with the gifts? Can I use them, or do I wait until after the wedding? I'd rather not set aside half of my living room to storing boxes for another month and a half, but I'll find a way if they really are off limits until then. Thanks!