for the Best Man's wife. We will call her "P" She wasn't apart of our wedding party (we only had Best Man and Maid of Honor) but she was a huge help! She kept the 2 guys in check, showered on time, dressed on time, etc, she helped to orchastrate our first look, she stood down in there ceremony area andd greeted people and helped anyone that had a question or anything. Right before we were supposed to head down to the atrium area for the ceremony we realized my Maid of Honor still had the ipod in her hand that had our song to walk down the isle on it, so "P" ran up to us and go it and took it back down so none of us got seen! Then during pictures and the cocktail hour and all that she made sure we always had a drink in our hands. I really could go on and on and on but she was a life saver, and she did it all because thats just the kinda person she is, and she honesly enjoyed it.
So I was thinking a $50 gift card for somewhere she likes to shop or something, I'd talk to her husband before purchasing.
My question is, is $50 too much? It iisn't too much in my eyes but I am also trying to thank her, not make her feel uncomfortable. My thoughts are that they spent about 60 on our wedding gift, now don't get me wrong, I AM NOT complaining, because they got us the #1 thing we needed most, however this just makes me wonder if a $50 gift card would make her feel uncomfortable.
My other thing is that P and Best Man were just recently married and we did help them alot too, with decorating and that type of stuff and she didn't get me anything, again not complaining just a thought that makes me think $50 might make her feel uncomfortable!
Am I over thinking this?! Any tips?! Sorry about the rambling!!!