My FI and I are having an intimate family only DW in November. It will just be his parents, my parents and sister and us at the wedding. My parents want me to have a AHR and invite other family and friends that aren't coming to the wedding. I know it's not polite to invite people to an AHR and not a ceremony, but my parents are insisting that I have an AHR at home. I am afraid it will come off tacky and look like we are just asking people for gifts and not wanting their presence at the wedding. How do I go about sending out wedding announcements and invites to the AHR and word it so that it's clear that they are just invited to the AHR and gifts are not expected? Friends are telling me to register and make a website, even though they know it's going to be a DW for immediate family and an AHR that they are invited to.