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Invitations??

So my mom and I have been arguing over when exactly to mail out our invitations...our wedding date is July 23rd but the RSVP date is by July 1st so when exactly do I mail them???
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Re: Invitations??

  • 6-8 weeks before the wedding. I would not send them any earlier than 10 weeks before, and I would only send them that early if you have a lot of oot guests and didn't send STDs.
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  • I am also getting married on July 23 and the RSVP date is June 1. I am sending the invites out by the end of this week. Actually stamping right now.
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_invitations-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:faf2db1d-5c46-4917-a177-d0a826d3563bPost:583feebc-f7c0-42f6-bd4d-feb5834c82f3">Re: Invitations??</a>:
    [QUOTE]I am also getting married on July 23 and the RSVP date is June 1. I am sending the invites out by the end of this week. Actually stamping right now.
    Posted by bigsmileychick[/QUOTE]

    <div>Did you mean July 1?  'Cause June 1 means you want people to RSVP 7.5 weeks before the event.</div>
  • Send them around May 23d. And bigsmileychick, you should really reconsider following your plan. Sending invitations so early with a response date so early isn't good planning. Its flat out rude.
  • Mrs.B6302007Mrs.B6302007 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_invitations-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:faf2db1d-5c46-4917-a177-d0a826d3563bPost:00d72b63-1acf-4dcf-aac7-d1589c7730a7">Re: Invitations??</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Invitations?? : Did you mean July 1?  'Cause June 1 means you want people to RSVP 7.5 weeks before the event.
    Posted by DramaGeek[/QUOTE]

    Since she's sending them out now, I'm thinking she did mean June 1. I would also venture to guess that there's a B list involved.

    Ditto banana.  Really, really rethink that plan, smileychick.
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