I'm invited to three weddings in one day, and need to send out rsvp's like, yesterday, but I don't know which to go to. all invites were addressed to me and my boyfriend. let's call them 1,2,3.
wedding 1 is the only one to send STD's and are friends from HS. many old friends from HS will be there.
wedding 2 is friends from college, and there is a group of about 15 of us that are really close, and always have a great time together. the BF really wants to go to wedding 2.
wedding 3 is the easiest to say no to, because it is furthest away, my BF and I will only know each other, and the invitation arrived last. but the bride doesn't have many close friends and has been talking about it with me for months, and sharing stories about her terrible BM's and dropping her MOH, etc. I think I know I have to say no to that one, but I feel most guilty about that.
as for the other 2, how rude is it to come late to one reception, leave early, etc? is there any way to do both, and if so, how should I rsvp?
and to the wedding(s) I'm declining, do I send a gift with the regrets or do I send a gift separately? (by gift I mean check.)
sorry for the longest post ever, thanks everyone!
