Opinion - grown children vs young children

smalfrie19

Hey Ladies. I highly value your opinon. Both FI and I have aunts and uncles who both have grown children (our age) and young children (under 13). Do you guys think that there is a problem with invinting grown children (on their own invitation of course) but only invite their parents (and not add "and family") and exclude their young siblings?

lyndausvi

Etiquette wise its fine. 

However, in my family dynamics it would cause some hurt feelings.  So we just invite all first cousins regardless of age.   All of my first cousins are older and had SO's, that meant I had twice the family guest list as my cousins had when they invited me to their wedding as a child.