I am having a reception February 2011 for upwards of 250 guests, but no more than 300. My fiance and I both come from large families, and have many friends that we have known for 10+ years. Therefore anyone who is not engaged or married is not invited with a guest, we just don't have the room. My Fiance is inviting several guys that he works with, or attended the Police Academy with. I originally intended to invite a few coworkers, but over the last six months, three of the 5 women have left my job. I decided today that I am not going to invite ANYONE I work with, but someone told me that it is proper etiquette to invite my two superiors, the few people in my coverage group, and even a few of the executive assistants I work with distantly. I have worked at this firm for 2 years, and do not plan on remaining there more than 2 more. Only one of the coworkers that I have left at the firm is someone I actually consider a friend; I really don't want to make waves or burn bridges. Can I go ahead and not invite anyone from my job? That seems to be more logical and fair than just inviting one or two individuals, and possibly alienating a coworker or superior.
