My brother is getting married in September. My husband and I are both in the wedding. There are a few things that have happened and I wonder if it's just bad etiquette or if they are being rude. There are about 6 weeks until the wedding date.
1. Thank you notes have not been sent for their shower that took place in early June. I know this may not be a big deal, but no acknowledgement of even receiving the gift was given.
2. Invitations have not been sent and it's a destination wedding.
3. Any information I have received has been through my mother. I have received one email from the bride and that was in response to my email.
4. The bridesmaid dresses were chosen and ordered, in my opinion, late. They will arrive in the wedding location city in Mid-august (hopefully). Then the shop is supposed to ship it to me, in another state. This leaves as little as one week for me to get alterations.
5. No contact has been made to my husband from my brother regarding tuxes.
I was extremely organized for my wedding. Now, I know that not everyone is as on top of things as I was. But they seem extremely behind. I keep thinking we'll get some info, but nothing.
I probably won't say anything because I don't want to cause drama in my family. I just need some reassurance that I'm not overreacting. Or, if I am, then I need to know that too. I feel that when you are having a destination wedding, information should be provided to the guests and party members in a timely fashion.
Thanks!