Merry Christmas Eve, Ladies!
I'm being very careful to heed the advice of TK and not mention my wedding at work as I have no intention of inviting any of my current co-workers to the wedding.
However, one in particular (my immediately leader) has a horrible habit of continually bring up the wedding and calling attention to it. I feel that they are already fishing for an invitation. We were at a team luncheon yesterday and I was asked if I was taking time off for the holidays. I responded very politely that I was not. However, this co-worker felt the need to interject that I am saving time for my wedding next year. She will continually bring up the wedding in mixed conversations, often when un appropriate.
Any advice on how to better handle things? I am answering the questions with as much deflection and minimal details. The only reason the date is even known is because I had to request the time off nearly a year in advance.
Thanks!
Am I going to be able to avoid not inviting them?