It's just one of those things that irks the heck out of me. You take the guy's last name, but you don't take his first name too. So I hate writing Mr. & Mrs. "His 1st Name" "Last Name". I want to write Mrs. Her Name & Mr. His Name Last Name.
Ex. Mrs. Jane & Mr. John Smith as opposed to Mr. & Mrs. John Smith
But do some people find that way insulting? I'm thinking maybe the older generation expects to be called by his first name and will be bothered that I included both first names?
I am sending out invites soon and can't seem to decide which way to go to cause the lease offense/annoyance. Which way is the better way to address the invites?