ok...so i was just recently a bridesmaid in my best friend from college's wedding. I was also an out of town bridesmaid...i went down for the fitting, shower and obviously the wedding. took FI 2 out of three times. Ok realize i should have only gone for the wedding (according to standards). But she has been my BF (out of town) for 10 years... I asked her to be in my wedding but she is incredibly swamped with work and may not be able to take off (because of company nonsense, which i totally understand). she won't know until closer to the event due to work if she can even take off. i am hopefully choosing my bridesmaid gowns next week. should i just tell her not to take the risk? or do i let her spend the $ in the chance that it may work out? i don't care if she cant be there for anything but the wedding..........TIA!!!
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