what do you call the girl who hands out the programs before the ceremony and petals after the ceremony and directs people to the guest book and where to stand to throw the petals? I'm putting together my programs and I have no way of acknowledging this person....which I would really like to do. Is she an attendant? helper? hostess? She's 16, so no child, but not really a jr bridesmaid either.....ideas? tia.