www.tinyurl.com/lobewonderYou may have heard of these, but if not, they're disposable, invisible, sticky things that go on the back of your ears. You really can't see them at all! The earring post goes through your piercing and then through the Lobe Wonder, so you don't feel a pull at ALL. My mom bought them for me after I almost had to return my Christmas present from FI because they were killing me.