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kristyand

Hello everyone--I've been MIA, but not really. I've still come to see and read. I think for most of us, even when we don't have time to post and play we still come to read. It's just part of my regular pattern at this point. The NC Knot board comes just after work email and just before icanhascheezburger.com. 

Anyhow. I've been MIA first because of Olive, and second because the week after getting her I started my third and most "big girl" job. I am now juggling between two and three jobs each day-every day. I wonder how long I can keep this up? As for Olive... I know some of you may be disappointed, as some of my friends have certainly voiced this, but not all. Rather than attempt to convey the situation yet again I'll direct you to our blog if you care to know our situation. The short: we no longer have her, I am heart broken, and I've never felt so irresponsible while making such an adult decision.

http://russandkristy.tumblr.com/

I hope to be around more. If I'm not, just know I'll be a lurker hiding in the wings, happy to come out to play if anyone needs.

keserzan

Bless your heart Kristy! It sounds like you've really had it tough. I read the blog, and am very happy for you that you were able to make such a difficult decision to send away such a precious bundle of love that was Olive - to a home that will love and care for her in a way you realized you could provide for her right now. THAT was responsible - so don't think otherwise! Another time will come, and another bundle of love with present itself.

kgaliger

I agree w/Katherine, while I'm sure it was extremely hard to give her up, you made a very responsible decision.  Puppies are a lot of work, I'm glad you were able to find her a loving home where she'll thrive. 

We miss having you around - how's CT?  I'm going up that way the weekend before x-mas.  If we make it up to new haven I'll let you know.  Right now it looks like DH is going to drive down from there to meet me.  How is the job situation going?

sundrop24

Bless your heart. I only can imagine how you feel and what you both have gone through. I am a animal or dog person through and throughout and that would have been a very difficult decision for me. I agree with pp there will be another time when life isn't so hectic.

alliegator8

OK, my eyes are watering reading that.  I have such a hard time giving up our foster dogs.  I can't even beging to know how I would feel if I had to give our Cecelia up.  But at least she is in a good home!  Good for you guys realizing early that it was too much for you right now.  There will be time for that in the future

dontworrylover

I can't imagine how hard it must have been to give her to another family. But kudos to you for realizing that you were in over your head. So many people would have kept Olive eventhough they couldn't give her the attention she needs. She will live a great life with all that space to run around.

allie76

I'm sorry about Olive  ::hugs::
I know that was a difficult decision to make, but it sounds like it was the best decision for all three of you.

CJ4578

I'm so sorry about Olive, that must have been rough. We're still around should you need us! If we can all figure out this darn new board...

bagantt

Hi Kristy (waves!). I read your blog post about Olive the other day.  It is/was heartbreaking I'm sure, but puppies are a lot of work.  Congratulations on the new job.  I know you all wanted Olive to work for you all, but life happens and sometimes its just bad timing.  You did the best that you could and I am glad you were able to find a new home for Olive.  You've had so many life changes in the recent months that it probably worked out for the best.  And now you will definitely know when you are ready for a new fur baby 

katherineUTC

Aww, I totally understand, Ive been in your shoes. I got a maltese puppy right after college, my roommate had had one and I just fell in love, so I got my own. Anyway then I moved back in with my parents. My mom doesnt work, so it was a perfect arrangement, she would take care of Ally when I was at work each day. After two years, I moved to NC to begin grad school. I got a grad assistantship, and had to be on campus 4 days a week from 8AM to 4:30PM. I would leave campus each day and have to go straight to uptown CLT for evening classes, which would last from 5:30 til 8:30. Then I'd get home at 9. So the dog was left alone for 14 hours. I realized quickly that it was totally cruel and unfair to her (she used wee-wee pads, in case there was any wondering about using the potty). A good friend of mine from TN had an older aunt who lived outside of Raleigh, she was a widow who had always had little dogs. She didnt have one at the moment. Anyway that aunt had met my dog when I was out in TN for my friend's wedding, and she fell in love with her. So, naturally she was the first person I asked, and she said yes right away. It was really hard, like giving up a child, but I felt it was the right thing to do. Hopefully someday the time will be better for one.

midnite007x

i am so jealous you get to icanhascheezburger.com!!! it is blocked here at work!

i so just cried!!! i read the blog! i know it wasn't an easy decision but it was a very unselfish one and the right one. we have three dogs and two cats and some days it does get overwhelming and we feel like our life revolves around them but we wouldn't trade it for the world. one day the time will be right for you guys and a new addition!