Hello! I am brand new to The Knot (just engaged last weekend). We are starting to look at venues for a reception this weekend. The Mill is Spring Lake is my first choice. Just a quick question...are prices per person usually negotiable ir is it set in stone? (Thinking a Saturday night wedding in Summer 2011).Also, since I'm so new to this...what is the average price for a DJ vs. a band...there's a specific band I want but they charge $6,500 for an 8 piece band...is that high?Also, what is average price for a photographer?Thanks in advance for your help!!Kelly