FI and I finally decided on a photographer (Sean Patrick) and I am just waiting for him to send me a contract so we can give him some money. And I may have found my dress!! I went shopping on Saturday and found a dress I adore. I thought there was something missing so I kept trying more on. The manager of the store came in when I had on a particulary unflattering dress and she asked why I was considering it. I told her I loved the detail on the bottom but really like dress one. so she proceeded to have me put dress one on over dress two, pin up the bottom of dress 1 and viola I had the amazing detail on the dress i liked :)I am still going to Kleinfelds at the end of the month but this is first dress I have found that is even a possible contender so I am really excited. And it is about 1/3 of my budget!!