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***SIN/DOC Question**

Hey -- sorry I missed your post - I'm not on here much anymore. Yes, the DOC I won totally bailed on me. I never did reviews and I felt bad calling her out on it on here because she was going through some family problems, but it was no excuse for her total lack of professionalism for MONTHS, not just right before my wedding. I have a friend who is an awesome wedding planner, so I'm not bashing planners in general at all, in fact I can totally see why they are useful. But in my situation, I was relying on a stranger DOC that I won in a contest to help me out with a whole lot of things I didn't want to deal with and the one thing I asked her to take ownership of (my Polaroid guestbook) she couldn't even buy for me and help me out with.....and then completely ignored me for a week before my wedding until finally calling me back the day before my rehearsal to tell me everything going on in her life and why she hadn't returned my numerous calls and e-mails.Again, I don't want to bash anyone, so if people want to e-mail me more questions, my e-mail is my knottie name @hotmail.Just be careful who you rely on, and ALWAYS have a backup plan. Luckily I stayed calm and my family/friends did everything for me (setting up candles, guestbook, sand ceremony, bathroom baskets, flip flop baskets, watching the card box, etc etc etc) so I was totally better off without her -- but it caused me lots of anger and stress right before my wedding. Word of advice -- no matter what you pay, always get a contract.

Re: ***SIN/DOC Question**

  • edited December 2011
    OMG Lindsey that's HORRIBLE!!! What a worthless vendor! I remember when you won and how excited you were. She even had it up on her blog. I am sorry but as a bride 2 days before your wedding she should not have been telling you HER problems. It seems it's all about this woman all the time. You should definitely warn other knotties...At least everything turned out beautiful withOUT her!
  • edited December 2011
    Yeah it wasn't really fun, to be honest. And the most ironic part was that she honestly didn't think I could survive without her. I was like "um, you've been MIA for a week and not responsive for MONTHS, I think I'll be OK."
  • uppereastgirluppereastgirl member
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    edited December 2011
    That's terrible, and so much unneccessary stress for you!  I'm glad everything turned out okay after all that.
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  • SinthyaSinthya member
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    edited December 2011
    oh what a POS!!! I'm glad everything worked out for you, and you are a better woman than me bc I'd put that ish on full blast.
  • edited December 2011
    That is terrible... I can't believe that a business owner would do something like that.  She is very lucky that you are as nice of a person that you are, bc you could very easily ruin her name (at least on theknot).  Didn't another knottie win her services as well?  I'm glad your wedding turned out so well without her services! 
  • edited December 2011
    Ha -- I think a lot of you know who it is anyway.
  • edited December 2011
    I dont know who it is but that is BS on her part!! Shame on her!! I wonder if she would've done the same to someone who was paying her for her services. A lot of times I see free giveaways for services and I wonder if the effort is the same as when the vendor is paid for......to even post it in her blog, it sounds to me like someone was looking for publicity of their business.....  
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  • SinthyaSinthya member
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    edited December 2011
    I think its starting to ring a bell. ;) And I think she just has an aversion to polaroid guest books bc she did the same thing to someone else I know.
  • edited December 2011
    Seriously, Sin!!! She OFFERED to do that for me and then I asked like every month and then every week if she had done it yet. It was the one thing I needed her help with and was willing to give her. I can't believe it happened to someone else!
  • alliecarrie41alliecarrie41 member
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    edited December 2011
    she's worthless.  i'd love a "vendor response" on this one!
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