i had a big flashy wedding, and they invited everyone they wanted, because they paid. not only did i not have much of a say in the guest list i didn't even want a big wedding, i would have been thrilled to get married in a backyard in front of family and a few friends.they must really not love me because they wanted to throw a big huge party to celebrate me and mh and invite all their friends so that they could share in our happiness. i mean really the nerve.