So originally my fiance and I wanted our good friend to get ordianed joey-style (from Friends) and marry us. Sadly its legally not doable so I asked a family friend who is a minister. However fiance and I would still like to have our friend do something during the ceremony. Also the minister is very flexible and is willing to do as little or as much during the ceremony as we wish her to. Does anyone have any ideas for how we can mesh friend and minister?