This is a second marriage for both of us - I have 2 sons (11 and 9) and he has 1 son (12). I am having my MOH and he has a BM - we also have 2 flower girls and 1 ring bearer (all 3 are my neices and nephew). I'm having my 2 sons walk me down the aisle - I know that I will have the MOH and flower girls stand on my side and the ring bearer stand on the grooms side, along w/ his son and best man --- My question is where do/should my sons stand? any advice? We are doing a family heirloom hourglass ceremony (like unity sand). There will be a total of 4 females (including me) and 6 males (including groom) thanks!