My fiance and I are getting married Nov 2010 and he has a huge family with alot of little kids in it. We are paying for the entire wedding ourselves with no help and I only work part-time because we have a two year old son. At our venue you have to pay for kids at half price which is still expenive ( ages 5 + up ). When my fiance's cousin was asking him about some wedding details he mentioned that we were going to have an adult reception and his cousin got kind of offended because that meant his 5 and 2 were not coming. He said that he couldnt believe that we werent going to have kids there but if we did there would be 30 + kids. I know a couple of people that put adult reception on the bottom of the invite, is that rude??
Thanks for all your help..