Engagement Party

hcer0708

Do you just invite family and close friends or do you invite everyone that you would be inviting to the wedding? thanks!

kewltif

That's a personal choice. Most people's engagement parties are not as big as their weddings.

cvl105

Just close friends and family....if you were to invite everyone, you might as well just have the wedding!

hcer0708

I thought it was was suppose to be just close friends and family until someone told me that if i am invitng them to the wedding then i should invite them to the engagment party and my reaction was the same as cvl105. Thanks girls!

Karma01

Ours was close friends and family

DMLJ

Well what I think they mean is that if you invite to the engagement party, then they have to be invited to the wedding- not vice versa.

Lolyalyssa

Family and close friends.

If you keep the engagement party at someone's house or a restaurant then people won't expect to be invited.  When it becomes a mini-wedding is when it gets out of hand.

brad1431

just close family and friends, not as big as the wedding list

hcer0708

Thank you everyone!

DS0305

Mine was more of an engagement dinner than a party.  It was just immediate family plus the bridal party.

I <3 Seabass

Ours was just family. It really depends on who's hosting it and big or small they want to have it.

And agree with pp, whoever told you that probably meant that whoever is invited to e-party should be invited to the wedding, not the other way around.