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Update on CRAZY non-bridesmaid

Okay so if you remember I had that strange situation with the girl who is insane and decided after torturing me while I was in her wedding, that she was in mine.

She finally called the other day while I was at work and told me that she
" reconsidered being in my wedding because I'll be 9 months pregnant on June 25 2011"
How she knows this I'm not sure. I'm guessing she used the same devine powers with future child birth as she did with KNOWING she was in my wedding...

Either way I told her that was great for her- and I would fill the spot or keep it open since I wasn't sure who I wanted if anyone else, and I even slipped in a "to be honest I was undecided about whether you were going to be in it" which pissed her off but maybe she is just hormonal with her year and a half pregnancy.

For those that gave advice I cannot thank you enough it really helped me realize that I should get what I want in MY wedding.






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    edited December 2011
    She's definitely a strange one! hahaha

    Glad it's resolved!!!!!  That's going to be one big ass baby after 1 1/2 years! haha
    ~Chelsea~
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    edited December 2011
    LOL! She is crazy, but very entertaining!
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    felicia220felicia220 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_update-crazy-non-bridesmaid?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:90Discussion:a93a9f9c-282f-4b13-9bdd-2e263d5504b8Post:09252e74-9992-4818-8bb5-6583322b3068">Re: Update on CRAZY non-bridesmaid</a>:
    [QUOTE]LOL! She is crazy, but very entertaining!
    Posted by Kvarrone[/QUOTE]
    Super entertaining, this girl needs her own show on MTV!
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    jchristeljchristel member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm sorry I missed the story!  It sounds like it was a doozy!
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    laurenross01laurenross01 member
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    http://forums.theknot.com/default.aspx?path=http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_strange-bridal-party-issue-of-course-long

    Here it is if you'd like to sneak a peek at the insanity !

     I totally think she would have been a great feature on Bridezillas though! She was more awful than any I've seen on that show!
    Should she even be ALLOWED to have children?
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    Lola MinnieLola Minnie member
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    edited December 2011
    OMG that is hysterical

    Good for you that she's out!!
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    jchristeljchristel member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_update-crazy-non-bridesmaid?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:90Discussion:a93a9f9c-282f-4b13-9bdd-2e263d5504b8Post:fb8cc65d-43d3-4e74-8b2d-ade5e973f084">Re: Update on CRAZY non-bridesmaid</a>:
    [QUOTE]<a href="http://forums.theknot.com/default.aspx?path=http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_strange-bridal-party-issue-of-course-long" rel="nofollow">http://forums.theknot.com/default.aspx?path=http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_strange-bridal-party-issue-of-course-long</a> Here it is if you'd like to sneak a peek at the insanity !  I totally think she would have been a great feature on Bridezillas though! She was more awful than any I've seen on that show! Should she even be ALLOWED to have children?
    Posted by laurenross01[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Can't wait to read it!

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    edited December 2011
    wow - just read your other post.  She sounds CRAZY!  I am glad she is also psychic too as this seems to work in your favor :)
    Good luck! 
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    jchristeljchristel member
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    edited December 2011
    All I can say is WOW!   I'm so glad it worked out for you!  Maybe she'll go into labor with her future pretend baby and won't even be able to attend :)
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    acablitasacablitas member
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    edited December 2011
    Glad it worked out.  

    And wow she's a psychic on the side too? lol
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    melissa82melissa82 member
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    edited December 2011
    What if she miscarries pretend baby and thinks she's back in?? You're a stronger woman than I, I would have made it clear that I never asked her to begin with. I'm sorry you can't get this person out of your life because I would scared of what she would do to me.

    As my mom would say, "Don't go to he bathroom alone with her!" (I never really knew what that meant, but she always said that about crazy girls. lol.)
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    jchristeljchristel member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_update-crazy-non-bridesmaid?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:90Discussion:a93a9f9c-282f-4b13-9bdd-2e263d5504b8Post:6ca3619c-e1a4-463f-8d62-cb9b1f92a2cf">Re: Update on CRAZY non-bridesmaid</a>:
    [QUOTE]What if she miscarries pretend baby and thinks she's back in??
    Posted by melissa82[/QUOTE]

    <div>LOL!</div>
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    laurenross01laurenross01 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_update-crazy-non-bridesmaid?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:90Discussion:a93a9f9c-282f-4b13-9bdd-2e263d5504b8Post:6ca3619c-e1a4-463f-8d62-cb9b1f92a2cf">Re: Update on CRAZY non-bridesmaid</a>:
    [QUOTE]What if she miscarries pretend baby and thinks she's back in?? You're a stronger woman than I, I would have made it clear that I never asked her to begin with. I'm sorry you can't get this person out of your life because I would scared of what she would do to me. As my mom would say, "Don't go to he bathroom alone with her!" (I never really knew what that meant, but she always said that about crazy girls. lol.)
    Posted by melissa82[/QUOTE]

    I hope me saying that I was going to either find someone else or leave it open for no one would have been enough- but clearly that may not work :) Miscarries? What if she never gets pregnant in her exact timetable? I think I have a good out now that she declined to be in that thing I never asked her to join.

    I've gotten stuck into weird bathroom convos wayy too often to still feel the need to ask other girls at dinner if anyone would like to join for a br run. haha This nut would probably get all stabby though!
    Now that it's over (for now,) I'm laughing my ass off over how nuts she is!

    Also if anyone wants their future read you just ask me I'll put you in touch!
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    laurenross01laurenross01 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_update-crazy-non-bridesmaid?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:90Discussion:a93a9f9c-282f-4b13-9bdd-2e263d5504b8Post:a9450248-0450-494e-a5f0-9cbfa2d81496">Re: Update on CRAZY non-bridesmaid</a>:
    [QUOTE]All I can say is WOW!   I'm so glad it worked out for you!  Maybe she'll go into labor with her future pretend baby and won't even be able to attend :)
    Posted by jchristel[/QUOTE]

    haha Oh please yes! Brides should get 3 wishes to come true on their wedding day... This might be tied with "no rain during ceremony"
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    DMLJDMLJ member
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    edited December 2011
    WOW!  This is a sick woman! 
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    jchristeljchristel member
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    edited December 2011
    I know we've been joking about it, but I'm wondering if you're going to have to tell her you didn't choose her as a BM. I've known women that sound like her and sometimes they continue this type of behavior because people choose not to confront them- they count on the fact that people are afraid to set them off.  For your sake, I hope she just backs off, but I would be prepared to confront her if you have to.  
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    laurenross01laurenross01 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_update-crazy-non-bridesmaid?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:90Discussion:a93a9f9c-282f-4b13-9bdd-2e263d5504b8Post:e8165f8f-2c17-4d47-a07e-bd21cb9bcb50">Re: Update on CRAZY non-bridesmaid</a>:
    [QUOTE]I know we've been joking about it, but I'm wondering if you're going to have to tell her you didn't choose her as a BM. I've known women that sound like her and sometimes they continue this type of behavior because people choose not to confront them- they count on the fact that people are afraid to set them off.  For your sake, I hope she just backs off, but I would be prepared to confront her if you have to.  
    Posted by jchristel[/QUOTE]

    This is very much a concern, she's never ever just going to be easy and delightful. For now I don't have to worry about it, or fight with FI over this... I really just need to laugh about how insane and free for now I am!  Hopefully it will just end here, even if she isn't pregnant (although I fail to see how that's a possibility)
    It probably won't though, and you are so right I need to be prepared. I can find "better" ways to handle this situation, but there is no "right or perfect" way.
    Crazy doesn't stop, and you can't stop crazy. (I should make that a bumper sticker and put it on her car)
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    jchristeljchristel member
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    edited December 2011
    I say COVER her car with this one:

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    laurenross01laurenross01 member
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    edited December 2011
    hahahaha!
    Thankfully she lives in Albany * and I won't be too tempted to drive up there to do that :)

    * right after she got married, she took a job with Deloitte in NYC but her husband and she live in Albany. So she commuted every day into NYC for two months that's a 3 hour drive each way- then signed a year lease on an apt and lived away from her new husband except for weekends... and then a month after she quit her job on the spot and moved back to Albany. I'm so glad she's not in NYC anymore :)
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    leah2bleah2b member
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    edited December 2011
    Yikes!  You can;'t make this stuff up!!!
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    edited December 2011
    Glad it's working out for you.
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    kewltifkewltif member
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    edited December 2011
    HILARIOUS!
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