I am looking for a venue with a unique space set up. I'd like to have the dance floor sort of separate from the dining area. I feel like when the dining area has a dance floor, its often very loud and the non-dancers don't get a chance to chat. I went to an outdoor wedding in South Jersey where it was nicely done and we spent the entire evening catching up with friends we hadnt seen in awhile.
Ideally, looking for a fall wedding next year, approx 180-200 people. Northern NJ or Hudson Valley (near woodbury commons). I cant seem to find what I'm looking for

I'd like something relatively simple, not looking for a lot of flare -- very clean look.
Any suggestions?