We have a few people that did not bring gifts to our wedding. A few claimed to have forgotten their gift and will be mailing it, but we have yet to receive those either. We're getting ready to start writing out our thank you's. What is the protocol- should we still send a thank you note to people just for coming to our wedding?
Also, a gift from a very good family friend went missing the night of our wedding. Last I heard their envelope was handed to a waiter at our venue along with some other people's envelopes at their table. We received all but that one envelope from their table. My parents are very upset about it and don't want to say anything to the couple. They are fairly certain there was cash and not a check, which makes it much harder to trace. We're assuming the proper thing to do would be to thank the couple for their gift and just cut our losses with that one. Has anyone had a similar experience?