Hi!! So our big day is October 12 and I want to order my invitations this week. I wanted to know what date I should put on the RSVP card. I need to give a final head count to the venue 2 weeks before. I also am unsure when I should send the invites out. We have aprox 30 of our guests that will need to make flight arrangements. We did send a save the date out 2 months ago but I still want them to have ample time to plan.. Hope to hear back soon : thank you!!!!