So I talked with my fiance about writing our own vows and he wigged out. He just wants to stick with the simon says vows which I think are too..... well over played and undervalued. I want what we say to reflect us and how we feel about eachother. He either can't or wont give me a reason why he does not want to do personal vows. I don't understand it. Anyone have any ideas on how we can compromise?