Hi everyone! Sorry but I have to let it out.
So, get a load of this.
FI's ex (as in 14 and a half years ago!) is stalking him. Yes, I mean it, she's stalking. She's sent numerous text messages to FFIL's partner over the past years asking whether or not we were still together. We never knew about it because she's always ignored her texts and never mentioned it to us to avoid upsetting us. Until a few months ago when this f***ing weirdo tracked down FI's email and wrote a love letter in which she blatantly "came on to him". He replied he didn't wish to be contacted (not exact words but you get the point) and included my name in the signature. She emailed twice again but we bounced the emails. Still didn't get it. So last week she texted FFIL's partner again asking her to explain why they can't be "friends". That was also ignored. Today, yes it's not over, she opened a FB account and sent him a message/friend request saying - I quote - I saw your pictures online and cried. With the same love that will always be there.
OK, so in my opinion she's a little disturbed. When FI and I met she did everything she could to be in our way and that caused me a lot of suffering, because I was very young and didn't know how to handle it. This (and the fact that she's a psycho) is the main reason I/we have no interest whatsoever in letting her in our lives. If she insists I'll sue her for harassment.
I feel better now. Thanks fo reading.