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Anyone have moments of doubt

about their dress?

I found another dress that I fell in LOVE with. But I haven't tried it on yet so it may not fit my body anyway. But, I'm only 10 lbs from my goal weight and it may fit my body just fine by then. 

Sooooo don't want doubts about my dress. 

1st pic is dress I fell in love with. 2nd pic is dress I currently have. 

PS (Group USA is buy off the rack so if I wanted a diff dress it is possible)


Re: Anyone have moments of doubt

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    lsvenssonlsvensson member
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    edited December 2011
    Girl, I feel you.  I had a panic attack about my dress decision not two days ago-- crying and freaking out, the works. (just bought my dress on Monday).  Funny how I have no qualms about entering into a lifelong relationship with another person, but I flip out about entering into an 8-hour relationship with a piece of clothing.

    I like them both, but I LOVE the one you have now-- love the bling on it!  No matter what, I'm sure you'll look gorgeous.
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    edited December 2011
    I have had my moments but you have to remember why you fell in love with the  dress you already have! That is why you are supposed to STOP looking after you have bought a dress.

    If it helps to ease your mind, I don't know where you originally dress is from, but as for the second dress, I went to Group USA to try on some dresses and they seemed to be cheap material and not very well made (at least the ones that I tried on) but they were very affordable so you get what you pay for.

    So I say stick with your original dress and STOP looking!! NOW!!! :)
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    smokeybaileysmokeybailey member
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    edited December 2011
    Nope, I love mine and she loves me back.

    Now, to find some shoes to complete our happy threesome. 

    Well, now to narrow down the shoes....maybe it will be a foursome.
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    edited December 2011
    "Nope, I love mine and she loves me back."

    lol. I love the personification of the dress. Glad you have no doubts. 
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    erinkay81erinkay81 member
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    edited December 2011
    I fell inl ove with the first dress I tried on. Didn't buy it because I thought there was no way that the first one could be "the one". I bought another dress that I fell in love with...then realized I was really in love with the first one... two months later I bought my original first love and couldn't be happier!
    I honestly had to stop looking at dresses though in order to make any decisions...I became a little obsessed and probably would have bought another one if given the opportunity!
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    direy25direy25 member
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    edited December 2011
    Ditto PP's, you need to stop looking at other dresses.

    I ordered my dress over a year before the wedding and definitely had some doubts, until I was able to try it on again... I fell in love with it all over again. 
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    Polgaria111Polgaria111 member
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    edited December 2011
    Both dresses are amazing!  Either way you win.
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    edited December 2011
    All my wedding drama is in the invitations area... I am completely in love with my dress, whenever I think about how I feel and look when I have it on I fall deeper in love with it. It's not only the style but the fabric and the details...
    It helps to put in on once in a while. If you don't have it with you maybe ask the salon if you can stop buy and try it on again. I remember the second time around mine was even more gorgeous than the first. And yes, try not to look at dresses anymore :)
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    edited December 2011

    I actually prefer the sesond one, gorgeous!
    However they are both amazing, i dont think you can lose eitehr way!

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    edited December 2011
    The dress I bought was the 4th dress I tried on. The first 3 were at an expensive bridal shop in the suburbs. I hate all three of them...I looked like a little kid playing dress up, I wasn't wearing the dresses, the dresses were wearing me. The first dress I tried on at Davids Bridal was mine. I knew it when I saw it in the catalog, and before I even came out of the room. A stranger even said as soon as I walked out of the fitting room "I hope that is your dress, because you look amazing in it!" I tried on another one after that, but I didn't even want to. Before we went back and bought it, I didn't even have the urge to go look and try on other styles. You fell in love with your dress...so you have to stop looking!
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    edited December 2011
    OMG Junebug, I LOVE that dress. I so badly wanted to try it on, but when I went to David's Bridal I was pretty chunky and had some back fat issues :). I'm glad to see someone look so gorgeous in it!!

    I thought I had found my dress, but when I went back to try it on, and order it, I tried on a few others too. There was one that made me doubt, but I had been thinking about the other one for so long, that I just took a deep breath and went with it. I ordered it on Monday, and I am forcing myself not to think of the one that made me doubt, and NOT look at any others. I am happy with my decision, so I'm just keeping that feeling!
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    kara811kara811 member
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    edited December 2011
    Like PPs, you've got to stop looking! I stopped doing that as soon as I found my dress. Well ever since it came out, even before I started looking, I knew right away I wanted it and fell in love even more when I tried it on. 
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    edited December 2011
    I had my dress for almost 2 years before I actually got married.  That left me with a lot of time to browse online, and find ones that I liked a bit better.

    Both of those dresses are gorgeous, but I think the one you currently own is amazing.  Love the fabric and detail on it.
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    edited December 2011
    Like Olivea I bought my dress about 2 years out from our wedding. I am soooo guilty of looking at wedding dress porn and definately second guessing my choice. I am obsessed with a Dolly Couture Dress but no one in Oz stocks them (or anything similar) so I can't try it on and I personally just can't risk not trying on my wedding dress. 
    I still love my dress lots but I am forever going to be thinking but what if I had just risked it! 
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