Sorry I really just need to vent to people who dont know me. It is some what wedding related.
First off my FI is wonderful but his 2 ex girlfriends who are also working at the same company as us are being very pushy as of late. The one girl almost ruined his brothers marriage and forced his brother to quit work, and the other is just a little too flirtatious. They both dont get the fact that hes not available, even though he ignores their calls and texts, but they try to corner him at work. Its getting fustrating. They also call and text him constantly to which he never answers but still! Im so fed up with it. They will stop for a few months then out of the blue they start up again.
To make matters worse his good friend is moving in with one of the girls (non relationship type) hes getting a divorce. Makes no sense to me but whatever. This will cause huge conflict between us because I will not allow my FI to hang out with her at all because I know what she is capable of. She has no boundries, and even though he does, I still do not trust her and her manipulation. If she did it to my FBIL on the clock at work, when he told her no and to back off, what makes her think that she wont do it to my FI!
The other problem is my dad. He is dating this woman who is hidious. She is rude and crude, never been nice to my sister nor I. He wants us to like her and get a long with her but how can you get a long with someone who is constantly correcting the way you talk, refusing to answer questions because you phrased it wrong (mind you this lady is not an english major) in fact she doesnt even have a college education. My father is oblvious to it all, but he did admit that she does do that to him. Trying to tell him how we feel is like talking to a rock. Any time that we are with him alone she is bombing his phone with text messages and phone calls so its like you get two words in and there she is.
I was trying to talk to him about the wedding one day and it was like hey dad this is what I want this is the venue and here is the reception and we were talking prices and she was calling before I could get through a whole sentance. I finally told him forget it, if you want to have a conversation with me come back with out your cell phone and dont bring your leash. I have always been really close to my dad, but this woman is seriously turning him against us and treating us badly.
Thankfully she never got to say two words to my FI other wise she would most likely be 6ft under.
I sound jealous but its not that. I just am aggravated, and I dont get along with women so well. Im protective of my father as I dont want to see him go through pain again the way he did when my mom passed. This woman has already broken up with him once but came crawling back.
UGH thanks for letting me vent!