I am so, so sorry I just now saw your PM from November. I didn't even know it was there!
Have you selected a wedding venue yet or are you still looking for ideas?
Choosing a venue is tough, but once you have that decided it's awesome how many other things start to fall into place.
Feel free to reply or page me if I can be of any other help. I don't post as much on here anymore, but I do still visit regularly.